Is dating to a woman with a child a plus or a minus? Everybody has his own answer for this questing. Of course, if you aren’t planning to have children at all, you will look for a woman without children. Some men think that having a child for a woman is a plus because she is a mother with some experience. She knows how to bring up children and how to take care of them. Widowed men with children prefer to look for a future wife who has already had a child because she will know how to behave with his children. Many men, many minds. Ask yourself is it a plus for you?